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Thu Apr 13, 2017 1:13 am
Is this the one you mean?
"Here is the inner dialogue I get from your photos - "Oh what if they don't like me/love me?" then "Well, too bad if they don't!" and back to "But maybe no one will want me!" followed by "Ah, they can all get royally stuffed!" You seem to leap from insecurity about yourself to pride, between neediness and not needing anyone/independence, and "I care what others think of me" to "I don't give a fig newton about what others think about anything!", depending on your mood at the time. This vacillation can be confusing for those who would like to get closer to you as they can't ever be sure which 'you' they will encounter. It makes them nervous and unsure of you, walking on eggshells. I get the sense you feel that time is running out for you. But you are still alive, aren't you and where there is life, there is hope! People are going to love you, because you can be very supportive and helpful, but you have to try and keep your mood more optimistic and positive - something balanced in between the two different extremes you can go to.
PS The second hairstyle is better for you because it brings out your more feminine side. People need to see that gentler, softer side of you."